Reeling and Healing Midwest Blog

We have openings at our July 24-26 Fly Fishing Retreat for Women Battling/Surviving Cancer! Help get the word out about our retreat! It will take place at Gates Au Sable Lodge in Grayling, MI. Cost is only $25 (yes, only twenty-five dollars) and includes lodging, all food, beverages, snacks, instructions, all equipment, fishing guides and more. For more information visit www.FishOn.org, phone 616-855-4017 or email info@FishOn.org. Please pass the info along!

Thank you so much for the opportunity to come to a retreat. I had a weekend away from every day life, a beautiful place to stay at, wonderful food, new friendships, volunteers, and of course learning how to fly fish!  Thank you for all that you do.  Fish On!  Darci – Participant from Traverse City, MI

Written by Past Participant – Justine Jahr (2009)

There are places I have been – discovered on road trips, revealed during journeys of other kinds and places revisited many times because their beckoning – that I consider sacred because of a particular feeling they evoke.  The kind of places where I am overwhelmed by the awareness of the peace of God which passes all understanding.  Such is the stuff of a trout stream.

There are many facets involved in the lure of a trout stream.  The preparation for the trip sparks the anticipation – the decisions of where and when, gathering of the gear, the musings over weather forecasts and, of course, the trip itself.  Trout streams are not normally located (unless you are very fortunate) in one’s back yard.  The drive, especially as the destination nears, is fueled by eager expectation.

I arrive and WOW, there it is.  It might be a fairly wide expanse of water, rippled and rushed by a relentless current, or a narrow, meandering stream that flows so slowly I must study the water carefully to determine which way it is going.  Whatever.  As I am a complete novice at all this, getting into my gear requires patience, balance and the ability to be amused when my net (attached to the back of my vest via magnets and bungee cords) insists on being everywhere except where it belongs.  Trying to act as though I’ve done this hundreds of times, checking several times to be absolutely certain my keys are secured in my vest before locking up, I carefully walk away from my van, rather clumsy in my size 10 boots.  Streamside, I scout for likely trout habitat – a log, a partially submerged windfall or a bend in the stream where the current is not as strong, a deep pool downstream from a rapids or a small waterfall, a cozy cover created by an overhanging rock or cliff – so many possibilities!

As I step carefully into the stream, scanning for slippery spots, amking certain one boot is firmly planted before lifting the other (a tumble would not only be uncool, it would spook the fish and that would be that), the sense of freedom, the appreciation of the privilege to leave shore and be one with the water begins.  As the water deepens I feel its coolness through my waders.  Oh yeah, this is GREAT.  Decision time.  Wet or dry fly?  Are he trout rising?  hiding?  Hungry?  Sometimes I can see them, positioned facing upstream, waiting.  What will it take to interest them, to have them at least look at my offering?  The fluid repetition of the cast.  the muttering when the fly does not end up where intended and gets caught and tangled elsewhere.  It’s all part of the fly fishing experience.

Having a trout take my fly, get hooked, struggle as I carefully and slowly reel it in, the netting (a procedure that, at this point in my fly fishing career, remains a total mystery to me), the landing and, finally, the removal of the hook and gentle release back into the stream – a period when time stands still and leaves me momentarily suspended in a state of awe sufficient to fuel memories for a long, long time.  Cool as this may be, I can be perfectly content just wading in the water in a serene and peaceful place, anticipating what lies around the next end.  That, for me, is the essence of the lure of a trout stream.

Dear Reeling & Healing Midwest,

So many thanks for the opportunity to attend a Reeling & Healing retreat.  it was a truly renewing experience and I enjoyed every aspect of it.  it was so great to see a very diverse group of women come together and in just a short time, share and laugh and cry together.  I learned so much, not just about fly fishing in those few days.  i was truly humbled by the kindness and generosity of so many.  all the volunteers who come to help were so pleasant and helpful and did indulge me in a way that I’m not used to receiving.  It felt good and was great for me to be able to relax.  Thanks so much for all you do to make these retreats possible.  may you be blessed with ALL the energy you need and be able to find time to rest and restore yourself.  My most sincere thanks, Rose Dugale

I heard a conversation the other day on Oprah (yes I TiVo her).  A therapist asked the patient if she ever cried.  The patient state that she didn’t really cry/sob – she’d try to tough it out and be stoic for her family, friends, others, and that she didn’t want to be a burden.  She added that she always wanted others to believe she was OK.

Her answers sound like so many of us in the world.

With that the therapist said, “Do you know that most people only cry when they feel safe and comforted?”  That comment hit home for me – especially when it comes to volunteering and participating at the fly fishing wellness retreats.  One of the goals shared with the volunteers is that each of our participants must feel safe.  Another is that they depart the retreat with a “higher than a kite” feeling – that they are treated as royalty – queens, and that they’ve enjoyed themselves so much they don’t want to go home.   We never fail to achieve these goals.  At the end of each retreat, there are hugs, smiles, laughter and tears.  Tears of new found hope, renewal, acknowledgment of achievement, of trust in themselves and the world, of enlightenment and comfort.

In looking at it now, I believe those tears come to fruition from the community of loving care, support and safety we create – not just from the fly fishing.  And you know what?  It is really cool to be part of it, to watch it manifest, to feel the energy.

Come share your gifts with Reeling & Healing Midwest.  Consider volunteering.  Or share our programs with a woman battling or surviving cancer and tell them to attend.  No matter what, you have an awesome experience.

Fish On!

Reeling & Healing Midwest announces some 2011 Retreat Dates.

• NEW PARTICIPANT RETREATS
  

Friday, May 6 – Sunday, May 8 in Lovells, MI

Sunday, July 17 – Tuesday, July 19 in Grayling, MI

Sunday, July 24 – Tuesday, July 26 in Grayling, MI

Sunday, August 7 – Tuesday, August 9 in Grayling, MI

Sunday, August 14 – Tuesday, August 16 in Grayling, MI

• REUNION RETREATS

Annual One Day Retreat, Muskegon River, Newaygo, MI – Saturday, June 18

Annual One Day Retreat, Pere Marquette River, Baldwin, MI – Saturday, July 10

Annual Fall Classic Weekend, Pere Marquette River, Baldwin, MI – Friday, October 14 – Sunday, October 16

For more information or to sign-up, visit our website at www.FishOn.org or please email us at info@ReelingandHealing.org.

Come fly fish with us!  Fish On!

It’s called “Reeling and Healing”, a retreat for women whose lives have been touched by cancer, but you’d never know it.  Cancer is certainly not on the agenda here – knot tying, casting a fly rod, identifying trout, walking in a pristine stream in waders with your own personal guide, fly fishing for trout – that’s what this retreat is all about.  What does trout fishing have to do with healing?  EVERYTHING.

It was our first day on the Au Sable.  I was on shore, still in my waders, taking a break and doing some photography.  As I watched pairs of fishermen in this incredibly scenic setting, I was struck by an emotion so powerful I was moved to tears.  Try as I might, I could not put a name to it – still can’t.  Perhaps one day it will come to me – perhaps not.  I think it’s way beyond descriptors I know.  I do know that the first time I entered my room I walked straight through the other door.  Before me was the river.  The first thought that came to my mind was “This IS the peace of God which passes all understanding”.

So, you take a group of women and an equal number of fly fishermen, team up, and start fishing.  The healing – well, that just sort of happens.  Two people in the stream, on fly fishing rod, a few instructions and the novice, guided by the experienced, is joyously engaged in the art of fly fishing.  Up and down the stream – pairs of people, both of them giving and receiving, and the healing begins.  Sitting on shore you can see it, you are moved by it – the privilege of observing healing occurring right before your eyes.  How cool is that?

We’re raving about the retreat and will encourage others to go.  The volunteers sure did amaze us with their willingness to bear our faults and mishaps and still say, “you’re doing a great job”.  Thanks to all of you and the Au Sable staff for the precious time we were able to spend.  It was beautiful and we hope to see you all again.  Fish on!  Shirlee B

I would like to thank you for the best experience of my life and all the women I met, but the best was my time on the river.  Being on the river made me realize I can make it through this fight with cancer.  These memories will last me a lifetime.  You are all the best.  Love, Pat K.

Dear Reeling & Healing Midwest,

What a wonderful time I had on my retreat. I’m thrilled I was able to attend with my sister.  I have so many happy memories.  All of you who helped out did a fantastic job.  You made it so interesting and enjoyable.  THANK YOU SO MUCH  Fish On!  Joanne, Pompano Beach, FL